After reading a very heated thread on The Bump about being a "crunchy" mom, I felt compelled to post about our parenting style and why we do what we do.
(This is the first free moment I have had all week. No worries; show is over next weekend and I have TONS of projects and plans for the summer vacation!)
We formula-feed. Honestly, and this is JUST MY OPINION, I have never wanted to breast feed. My brothers and I were all formula-fed and we turned out A-okay. I had a breast reduction when I was in college and it was a possibility that breast feeding would not even be an option. But honestly, I knew I was only taking six weeks off and I need my free periods to grade and plan, not sit in an office and pump. I saw how EXHAUSTED my breast feeding friends were, and that just sealed the deal when I was pregnant. Don't get me wrong, I give SO MUCH credit to those that do breast feed, but it was not in our game plan. And C was GLAD I didn't because he LOVES feeding Logan and spending that time with him and bonding as well.
We use disposables. I do an obscene amount of laundry as it is, with two teenagers and two adults. I didn't want to add cloth diapers to the mix. Plus, changing a poopy disposable grosses me out enough!
I work full-time. There is no possible way that I couldn't work full-time. We need to live and maintain a roof over our heads. Now, as a teacher, I am SO lucky to have vacations off and weekends and SUMMER VACATION with the little man and my girls. And honestly, I would go bat-shit-crazy if I stayed home full time.
Logan has slept in his crib since Week 3. Bed sharing is not something I get and I was afraid of squashing him. Our bed is a place for my husband and myself. And our first son, our big goofy dog Ozzie. We have always let Ozzie sleep in our bed and when Logan was born, didn't want him to feel like he was being replaced.
I have never "worn" Logan. Moby Wraps scare me and I always think the baby looks uncomfortable. But, I am probably way wrong on that since so many babies love them.
Logan will get his vaccines on the schedule recommended by his doctor. I will stop there because this is the ONE AREA that I could get judgy on.
That is all for now. I am not being judgmental in ANY WAY and I firmly believe that each family is different and has different needs. We do what is right for our family, and I believe that is how it should be. No mommy has the right to judge any other mommy if she is doing all that she can to keep her baby safe, happy and healthy.
Have a good Friday!